She keeps her standards high because she knows what she brings to the table

She’s not arrogant. She’s not selfish. She’s simply aware of her value. She knows the kind of heart she has, the effort she gives, and the love she’s capable of sharing. 

She understands that when she shows up for someone, she does it with her whole soul. That’s why she doesn’t settle for anything less than what she deserves.

                                         

She’s not looking for perfect—but she is looking for real. She doesn’t need someone to complete her; she’s already whole on her own. 

But if someone wants to be in her life, they need to bring honesty, respect, and effort. She’s not interested in games, excuses, or half-hearted love.

Her standards are not about being picky—they’re about protecting her peace. She’s worked hard to build confidence, to grow through challenges, and to heal from pain.

 She won’t let anyone take that away from her. That’s why she doesn’t lower the bar just to keep someone around. If they truly care, they’ll rise to meet her there.

                                       

She brings so much to the table—kindness, loyalty, strength, and support. She’ll cheer you on when you doubt yourself. She’ll stand by your side when things get hard. 

She’ll believe in you, even on the days you can’t believe in yourself. That kind of heart is rare, and she knows it.

People sometimes mistake her high standards for being “too much,” but she’s okay with that. She’s not for everyone, and she doesn’t need to be.

 She’d rather be alone than with someone who doesn’t appreciate her. She’s learned that peace is better than settling.

Keeping her standards high isn’t just about relationships—it’s about how she lives her life. She doesn’t chase friendships that feel one-sided. 

                                         

She doesn’t stay in jobs that drain her spirit. She doesn’t say yes when her heart is saying no. She honors her time, her energy, and her dreams.

And when the right people come along—those who see her worth, match her energy, and bring their own fullness to the table—they’ll understand. They won’t try to change her. 

They won’t ask her to shrink. They’ll respect her boundaries and value her presence. Because real love, real friendships, and real opportunities always meet you at your level.

                                         

So she keeps her standards high, not out of pride, but out of self-love. Because she finally knows what she brings to the table—and she’s no longer afraid to eat alone until the right company comes.

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